1989 is probably the best era, the era where taylorswift is officially a tumblr user
I really love my women’s lit class. But at the same time, I really hate it. I could make a giant list of why but its not worth it.
I wanted to love it so much. But I don’t like being told how to perceive feminism. I dont like being told about equality, and then having my professor talk about how unattractive another girl is because she tried to make herself look perfect. I dont like that my professor spent fifteen minutes talking about Barbie dolls in a negative light because they look perfect. There’s nothing wrong with wanting plastic surgery for yourself or just being hot.
Idk I just dont enjoy it.
we’ve taught girls to romanticise nearly everything a boy does. when i was younger i thought it was cute that boys chased the girl even after she said no. i loved it when after a girl moved away from a kiss, the guy would pull her back and force it on. i thought a guy saying ‘i won’t take a no for an answer’ was passionate and romantic. we’re literally always teaching girls to romanticise abusive traits.
I think i will just see how it goes and if it can stay in without the ball for two nights (because no piercer works mondays and tuesdays) then I will fo everything I can to keep it. However, if it comes out, I will wait a few months and retry.
This is proving to be more of a hassle than I thought it would be. Like im glad I look super hot and I’ve never been ao confident, but at the sane time its kind of a disaster. One of the balls fell off at work today (becauae I had to keep replying band aids because it wont fit in my nose) and now I look really dumb and im worried it will come out and i really want to blow my nose but thats out of the question and im just really sad that this isn’t going how I planned.